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6 Networking Skills to Successfully Sell Safety

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Networking is a crucial component of increasing your leadership. An influential leader prioritizes relationships with employees and leaders to successfully identify the appropriate method to sell your safety vision and expectations.

– DENIS BAKER

Networking is making connections and building relationships. As a safety professional, you are the key player in getting everyone to buy into your safety plans, expectations, and training. All of this is true, from the bottom to the top. These connections will create an atmosphere of respect and trust, and they will see your vision and desires’ positive values. One of the ways I work to build my networking capability is to focus on recognizing the success of what people do and recognizing their role. I also look to serve people and show them that it is not my success but their success in going home every day. I have learned throughout my career that if I focus on people and their needs and challenges, I will encounter solid relationships and succeed.

I will admit that sometimes networking can be uncomfortable. When I see people doing something wrong or not engaged in safe activities, I initially want to hold them accountable. However, that will not result in building a positive relationship. So instead, I will have them stop and start a conversation about what they can do to reduce the risk and ensure their safety. I’ve experienced that networking can be a long-term adventure. Still, you need to know — it is important to remember that the goal is to form lasting relationships.

Those who expect to immediately reap benefits from an initial connection can feel frustrated, insincere, or want to manipulate people. But, when you genuinely connect with people, you build genuine relationships and identify your commitment to serve them to show interest in their position, activities, and family.

Here are 6 Networking Skills to drive you to Successfully Sale of safety

Ensure you have face-to-face communication

Face-to-face communication refers to the interaction between you and the individual or group where everyone is in direct contact. Having a face-to-face conversation, you will be successful in your one-on-one or group discussions. It offers the receiver(s) and sender(s) a viable opportunity to look into each other’s eyes and evaluate their thoughts and ideas by interpreting body language, facial expressions, emotions, and tone of voice. Sometimes it becomes essential for the people you are interacting with to get a clear idea about you.

Make a positive first impression.

When you initially meet with an individual or group, it only takes a glance, maybe three seconds, for someone to evaluate you the first time. So here are things to consider;

Positively present yourself

  • Be yourself.
  • Have a winning smile.
  • Be transparent and confident.
  • Use humor
  • Be courteous and attentive.

You have to know this too, “your first impression can be impossible to reverse or undo, and that will affect the capability of achieving an effective and strong relationship.”

Have a very positive and compelling elevator pitch

You are wondering, “why do I need an elevator pitch for successful networking?” Well, every safety professional has to be able to communicate their goals and expectations to anyone. By doing this, this is how you successfully sell your desired outcomes. But, I also know that a positive elevator pitch will drive the first impression. So, here, let me tell you how to create a successful elevator pitch.

Describe who your “customers” are. In the safety profession, your customers are every employee, contractor, vendor, and visitor, regardless of their roles or positions. Show the benefits or results of following your vision and the safety processes and procedures. Appeal to the need or problem of the other person or group. Don’t only be a problem identifier, be a problem solver. Describe the results when meeting or declining safety expectations make people say, “Tell Me More!”

Elevator pitch example;

“Hi, I am your safety supporter. My role is to ensure that you and your colleagues produce safe behaviors and operate in a low-risk environment. I am here to identify what you like and what we need to address to ensure you feel safe and comfortable in everything you do.” – DENIS BAKER

Your elevator pitch should not last more than 30 seconds, or the person or group might start yawning.

Be patient

It’s hard to be patient when you want or needs people to change their ways. Lack of patience can easily lead to the development of frustration on your side. Here is how I approach the situation when connections and relationships move slowly. Suppose I attempt to aim too directly or quickly at achieving my desired goal. In that case, I move that connection forward (build a strong relationship) by spending more time in the person’s area or working on ways to get more engaged with the person or group. Most times (not all), I see positive progress going forward.

Continually follow-up

Once you connect with someone, you have to follow up. Timing is of the essence when trying to sell safety because you want to reinforce the connection before the person has forgotten your expectations and what you committed to do or check on. By following up, you strengthen your relationship with the person or group. Following up also allows you to re-evaluate the situation and identify if additional needs or concerns have shown up or been deleted or reduced.

Tips for following up;

  • Follow up within 24 hours. You want to follow up quickly so that the person remembers you or your expectations. Walk around or visit, but add additional networking opportunities.
  • When you see them, mention something they told you about their family, sport, or hobby.
  • Ask if they need anything from you or give them an update on what you said you would do or look into

LAST THOUGHT

I encourage you to network with an open mind, learn from others, and welcome opportunities to share your visions and show your commitment to people’s safety. Empowering those around you is the best investment you can make as a safety professional.

Denis is an Executive Director for the John Maxwell Group and is a certified leadership coach, trainer, keynote speaker, and DISC Behaviorial Consultant. Denis is a senior safety professional and a strong, passionate influential person. He is committed to teaching and communicating practical and relevant influencing techniques.  His unique, passionate, and emotionally driven style resonates with many, creating a desire to become an effective leader. 

You can contact Denis at dbaker@leaderinfluence.net for information on coaching, leadership, team and culture training, DISC Behavioral consulting, or to be an inspirational speaker at your next event.

WHY EMPLOYEE RECOGNITION IS CRITICAL TO ACHIEVING A STRONG SAFETY CULTURE

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 I was recently part of a group of Safety Professionals discussing various ideas on how we can recognize people who meet or exceed safety expectations. As we continued our conversations, I started thinking about how important it is to identify people who are committed to their safety and those around them. As I began thinking more and more about recognition, this thought came to my head. “You can’t build a strong, sustainable safety culture if you don’t know who exhibits safe behaviors.”

Another thing that hit my brain is that I realized that employee recognition is the cornerstone of effective leadership. I believe that as the competition for workers has escalated and the shortage of workers exists, one of the key ways to show that we value their commitment to safety is a critical path to maintaining a consistent workforce.

The most significant reason leaders fail to identify their top performers is thinking in ways similar to a phrase from President Harry Truman, “Just think of what our team can accomplish if no one cares who gets the credit!” – President Harry Truman.

With all due respect to President Truman, this phrase is often misunderstood. The quote is intended to emphasize the value of humble leaders. But when misunderstood, it can deprive a vital piece of leadership information.

Some people believe the words, “it doesn’t matter who gets the credit,” indicate that you should not pay attention to, or even be aware of, those who are delivering outstanding safe behaviors or the leaders who are committed to the safety of their employees. After all, many companies seem to focus on the numbers. Numbers can identify a path forward. However, most leading indicator numbers may not be very actuated. The company I recently worked for only cared if the operations team met the monthly numbers, there was no accountability to determine accuracy. If we focus on the numbers, then numbers will not develop a strong safety culture. The only thing that determines your culture is the people.

If you have interpreted “it doesn’t matter who gets the credit” to mean that individual recognition is not a good thing, step back and ask yourself these questions:

  • Do I know who is generating the best ideas?
  • Do I know who is supporting initiatives?
  • Do I know who is performing the work or tasks safely?
  • Do I know who the most encouraging person on your team is?
  • Do I know who is going out of their way to support their teammates?

If you do, give them, then give them recognition! Otherwise, if you continue to misapply the “it doesn’t matter who gets the credit” sentiment and focus on production and leading indicator numbers, you will face an enormous leadership shortcoming and lose respect and trust.

So, what is employee recognition?

In general, it simply refers to all the ways an organization shows its appreciation for employees’ contributions to the company’s overall safety and business success. It can take on many forms. Companies recognize employees for things like:

  • Achievements
  • Exhibiting desired behaviors
  • Going above and beyond expectation

From the safety perspective, employee recognition focuses on the commitment workers make to ensure their safety and the safety of those around them. So here is the safety version of recognition:

  • Achieving risk reduction
  • Exhibiting Safe behaviors
  • Identifying unsafe behaviors performed by others 
  • Safety suggestions or ideas
  • Following company health, safety, and environmental protocol and procedures
  • Meeting or exceeding accurate and effective leading indicators (observations, inspections, training)

SO WHY DOES EMPLOYEE RECOGNITION DETERMINE THE SAFETY CULTURE

From a very early age, we crave recognition from parents, teachers, and friends. Unfortunately, our desire for a positive declaration is so strong that we can even perceive a neutral reaction as a negative one. If this occurs, employees and leaders lose the desire to achieve success and will focus on what they need to do to meet minimal requirements.

This continues to hold in most workplaces. However, if we can implement a successful employee recognition program, you will see an increase in the company safety culture and also achieve:

  • a higher level of retaining top talent
  • a significant increase in employee engagement in campaigns and programs
  • higher performance resulting in higher production
  • lower risk and safer behaviors

THE FUTURE

Recognition helps the workforce see that their company values them and their contributions to their safety and the success of their team and the company. This is particularly key when organizations are growing or looking for a change. It helps employees build stronger morale and confidence and motivates them to continue working safely and supporting the company’s goals. 

So, no matter how honorable the statement “it doesn’t matter who gets the credit” is considered, we all must embrace the recognition of employees who exhibit vital safety behaviors and fully achieve the leading indicators.

Denis is an Executive Director for the John Maxwell Group and is a certified leadership coach, trainer, keynote speaker, and DISC Behaviorial Consultant. Denis is a senior safety professional and a strong, passionate influential person. He is committed to teaching and communicating practical and relevant influencing techniques.  His unique, passionate, and emotionally driven style resonates with many, creating a desire to become an effective leader. 

You can contact Denis at dbaker@leaderinfluence.net for information on coaching, leadership, team and culture training, DISC Behavioral consulting, or to be an inspirational speaker at your next event.

3 Core Attributes of Strong Safety Professionals and Other Leaders 

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I recently had a conversation with a friend. We discussed how my Peloton bike’s consistent use was building a more robust and much more sustainable, and energetic body. As we continued our discussion, we talked about how people become athletes because I mentioned that I was becoming a strong athlete and moving in the right direction. My friend asked this question. “Are athletes born or made?” I started thinking and commenting that I felt I was not born a natural athlete but felt that I was moving toward becoming an athlete. As some of you may know, I have physical issues with my legs and hands, so anything I can do to strengthen those body parts allows me to become more robust and stable. 

Most professional athletes seem to have unique physical talents. But every athlete still must show up and work very hard to maintain their athletic abilities. The most natural athletes will never be competitive (or even in shape) if they don’t try and work hard. 

Later that evening, I started thinking about how safety and other leaders have to play the same role as athletes. Then, I started thinking about what core attributes make a strong influencer and effective leader. For the safety profession, our role falls into two categories. 

  1. Compliance – we are trained in school and learn how they apply to the many different business forms. However, compliance does not exist if workers do not exhibit the right behaviors.
  2. Influence – This is where our profession struggles. Over the last few years, we have increased the information surrounding leadership, and many of our conference speakers focus on the different forms of soft skills. 

As a safety professional, I have focused on soft skills to create a more vital influencer and effective leadership. I have found that many leaders—at least those people will follow—are SELF-MADE. The ability to effectively lead people comes from only the leader’s choices.

Influential leaders come in all kinds of shapes and sizes. Some are extroverted; others may be introverted. They may focus on the big picture and become strategic thinkers or active doers.

So, as I continued to think about what main focuses create a self-made leader, I identified three (3) core attributes that will make a person a strong leader. 

Any leader can be effective if they can effectively exhibit these three core attributes

1. Full EmbraceFully Embrace Leadership: Many people in leadership roles don’t lead. Leadership is tiring and requires much work. Being a “boss” or dictator isn’t leadership. To lead, a person must identify and engage people’s will and influence them to ensure they all move in a common direction.

Many people view the role of “leader” as the next rung on the ladder—a reward or a position earned. But unfortunately, they don’t always see leadership as something that only exists through action and relationships.

Influential leaders actively inspire a compelling vision among their team. They are cultural architects and role models. They accept that the path to excellence is often on the other side of discomfort.

They work hard to build their leadership through influentially adding value, showing respect, and creating trust with their team and those they encounter

2. Focus on Serving Others: People who end up in leadership roles are often motivated and ambitious drivers to meet their goals and objectives and get things done. The question is, for whom?

The most effective leaders are motivated to serve others. They focus on delivering value to others and support their team or organization to reach their highest level and exceed expectations. 

Many leaders tend to focus on themselves, their vision, legacy, goals, and advancement. When this happens, a leader’s attitudes and behaviors shift from multiplicative to self-opportunistic. Unfortunately, this path will only result in poor performance and a reduction or failure in the respect and trust created previously.

The difference shows up mostly in results. Are the people around them growing? Does the workforce indicate changes in their behaviors? Are people more confident and independent than they were before? Is the culture sustainable? These are all signs of servant leadership

3. Create the Right Vision: Leaders lead to what they see. They can’t lead if they don’t know where to go. Influential leaders must create their vision through the interactive engagement of their team and those who play a part in the results. Leaders validate the vision and then fully communicate. Anyone claiming to be a leader but who doesn’t know or have the vision only fills the leadership seat but doesn’t know how to drive the bus. 

Why Does This Matter?

It can be easy for leaders to get sucked into the weeds. Often, they drift towards a part of the job they enjoy and have the knowledge and experience. But unfortunately, sometimes, leaders and executives do not understand how to embrace authentic leadership, serve others, and drive their visions.

As a test, think of a vibrant organization with a consistently solid and sustainable safety and operational culture.

Here’s what you will see:

  • The leaders of those organizations are actively doing the work of leadership. They’ve embraced it.
  • They lean towards serving vs. seeking to be served.
  • They radiate the vision.

If you aren’t sure, flip it. Can you think of a vibrant organization with a consistently strong, sustainable safety and operational culture led by a leader?

  • Is inactive, absent, or lost in the weeds?
  • Insists on being the “the boss” or maximizing their perks?
  • Has no vision, no sense of direction, and communicates no purpose?

It will not exist.

Answer these three questions to determine your path forward

To what degree do you believe you:

  • Embrace leadership as a responsibility and role?
  • Provide servant-hearted leadership?
  • Have and communicate a clear and compelling vision regularly?

Denis is an Executive Director for the John Maxwell Group and is a certified leadership coach, trainer, keynote speaker, and DISC Behaviorial Consultant. Denis is a senior safety professional and a strong, passionate influential person. He is committed to teaching and communicating practical and relevant influencing techniques.  His unique, passionate, and emotionally driven style resonates with many, creating a desire to become an effective leader. 

You can contact Denis at dbaker@leaderinfluence.net for information on coaching, leadership, team and culture training, DISC Behavioral consulting, or to be an inspirational speaker at your next event.

THE SAFETY PROFESSIONAL’S BIGGEST FAILURE……. problem-solving

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Safety Professionals are excellent problem identifiers but horrible problem solvers! 

If the above statement offends you, that is probably a good thing. Safety people are excellent compliance experts and can identify almost everything that can cause unsafe behaviors or at-risk conditions. But sometimes, you struggle to give advice or help solve the issues. To become more effective and influential, you need to overcome the biggest professional problem……solving problems.

Sometimes you can’t solve the problems because you think you should never solve anything. Well, let me say this, 

“the wise Safety Professional will stare down each problem or potential problem that comes across their plate, and before expending an ounce of energy on trying to solve it, they first consider these three questions….”

1. Is this a problem to be solved or conflicts to be managed?

Before you decide to tackle whatever potential problem, first recognize if you really can solve it. Not every difficult situation that lands in your hands are a problem you will ever be able to solve. You can’t solve the problem of disruptions if a leader isn’t holding his workers accountable. However, you can identify the everyday actions they must follow to protect their people. You can minimize these by good preparation, but you can’t solve them. These are conflicts you must learn to manage.

2. Why is this a problem?

Why is this a problem? Is it a problem? Why do I care? Often, we will identify issues that can be compliance issues or put workers at risk. Before attempting to solve the problem, ask the leader or worker if they think your identification is a problem. If the answer is yes, ask for their suggestion or input to fix or eliminate it. If they say no, give them the “why” on what makes it a problem or concern. Ask this question to get desired feedback.

“I think I might be missing something here. Can you clarify what the problem is we are trying to solve?”

3. What can we do to solve the problem?

So you identified a problem, and the leadership and workforce agreed that it was an issue, or you gave them the “why” it was a problem. Now we need to provide the “what.” This can be a suggestion, discussion, or directional approach. However, there must be an identified way to solve the identified problem(s) when the conversation is made. Always figure out just what the scale and scope of this problem are. And put the appropriate energy and resources to fix and eliminate it.

NOW WHAT, SAY WHAT

Remember to reflect on this quote when dealing with problems. 

 “The problem is not the problem. The problem is your attitude about the problem.

– Captain Jack Sparrow

Denis is an Executive Director for the John Maxwell Group and is a certified leadership coach, trainer, keynote speaker, and DISC Behaviorial Consultant. Denis is a senior safety professional and a strong, passionate influential person. He is committed to teaching and communicating practical and relevant influencing techniques.  His unique, passionate, and emotionally driven style resonates with many, creating a desire to become an effective leader. 

You can contact Denis at dbaker@leaderinfluence.net for information on coaching, leadership, team and culture training, DISC Behavioral consulting, or to be an inspirational speaker at your next event.

WAYS TO INCREASE YOUR INFLUENCE AND SELL SAFETY

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Two shoe salesmen go to a remote island to break into new markets. After a few days, one salesperson calls the office and says, ‘I’m on the next flight. I can’t sell shoes here. Everyone goes barefoot.’ The other salesperson sends an email to the boss minutes later: ‘Get ready! The prospects are unlimited. Nobody wears shoes here!’ 

When you read this, you might have thought about how the first salesperson didn’t take advantage of the many shoeless people and how the second salesperson will be very successful. But, heck, maybe some of you are thinking, who cares, what does this have to do about safety. 

Let me respond…..

1. The first sale person is going to be out of work

2. The second salesperson will be financially secure and promoted quickly

3. The third thought, SALES HAS EVERYTHING TO DO ABOUT SUCCESSFUL SAFETY PERFORMANCE! 

If you go to Webster’s Dictionary and look up the word “sales,” it says “to exchange a commodity for money.” However, I believe safety and sales both fall in the same categories. I believe safety can be redefined as sales, and I know the only way to get workers bought in is for them to accept expectations and programs through your influence. 

When we think about it that way, there’s nothing creepy or sneaky about it. As we talk about influence, we are talking about building relationships, making a difference in people’s lives, and exchanging our services to safety values so people can go home every day.

The difference between average safety professionals and successful ones is staggering. Average safety professionals will hit their goals and objectives occasionally or meet some goals or some objectives, but not all. However, successful safety professionals meet their goals and objectives —EVERY time — in addition to establishing a consistently strong safety culture. 

The idea behind this topic is to provide information so that you can understand that safety professionals provide service to our customers. Meaning we serve our workforce and the company leadership. Safety professionals have little to no authority, so everything we believe or want has to be sold to every person. After reading this blog, you will walk away thinking of various tips and ideas to become a more efficient safety professional. Doing this will result in much more significant results.

If you want to exceed your current successes, read the 8 Identified Habits of a Successful Safety Professional. If you need to achieve higher performance, I strongly suggest you consider implementing and integrating the 11 Tips to Becoming a Successful Safety Professional. Following these habits of successful safety professionals will help you become one of the top-selling safety salespeople on your team — or even the organization.

SELLING HABITS OF SUCCESSFUL SAFETY PROFESSIONALS

  1. Identify and stick to your character – A clearly defined character is crucial to an effective sales process. And a safe person who sticks to that persona effectively generates buy-in. In addition, an effective safety professional must research and become very familiar with the processes and products along with all levels of employees. This gives you the right direction in your selling process.
  2. Use a measurable, repeatable sales process – Low-performing safety professionals let intuition guide them. High-performing safety professionals use a process that’s optimized to move as many prospects as possible from “connect” to “achieve.” Low-performing safety professionals sometimes let things slip through the cracks. High-performing safety professionals know the state of every person and what motivates people, what actions they’ll take next, and when. 
  3. Know your direction – Being able to sell our ideas is half the battle. Understanding what you’re selling is the other half.  People want more access to information (the why) than ever before. To gain their trust and add value, you have to know clearly know what direction to go and why it’s valuable to your workforce.
  4. Find shortcuts and hacks – Once an excellent safety professional identifies a successful strategy or technique, they use it — again and again, until it stops working. This is very smart. Safety professionals are constantly working against the clock, which means the more time they spend experimenting, the less time they have for actual selling. 
  5. Practice active listening – Most every safety professional I have interacted with struggles with listening (including myself). Successful Safety professionals are entirely present when they talk to people. They’re not thinking about another deal, looking at their phones, or sending funny memes to their team members. Instead, they’re engaged — and as a result, their conversations with buyers are deeper and more meaningful. Active listening may be one of the most complex skills since we typically care more about what we have to say. However, it’scritical. Not only will you build stronger relationships, but you’ll unlock information that’ll help you position yourself in the most efficnet direction. 
  6. Work hard – It’s 5 p.m., and your counterparts have already left the office. The high-performing safety professionals are still in the office. They are tired and some have families, but they’re still sending emails, scheduling meetings, and walking through the facility or site. The idea is that you must be engaged with the workforce and continually sell your ideas. You cannot change a culture from behind a desk.
  7. Follow up – Many safety professionals fail to effectively follow up after agreeing to help get things done or looking at options. When you fail to follow up, you have lost all respect from that person or group. 
  8. Personalize your message – Instead of following a script and approaching each associate with a “one-size-fits-all” mentality, high-performing safety professionals are committed to learning as much as they can about a person, group or process and will tailor their message. These safety professionals understand their workforce’s unique pain points and explain why following and following their direction is crucial.

TIP TO BECOMING A BETTER SAFETY PROFESSIONAL

  1. Shadow your colleagues – Want to improve your performance? Identify the best safety professional within your company and ask if you can shadow them. Receiving coaching from your peers is a great way to get better at your job while building solid relationships with your coworkers.
  2. Practice your people skills – Successful safety professionals have excellent people skills. Its doesn’t matter if you have an extrovert personality or an introvert personality. What matters is your ability to build strong relationships, build respect, trust, and add value to people. Small talk is a great learnable skill — and one that’s crucial to your success. So whether you’re at a job site, plant, or in a meeting, practice making other people feel at ease. 
  3. Be a team player – So much of safety pop culture glorifies the lone wolf. But the best safety professionals know it takes a village to build a successful team.
  4. Know when to stop – Are you wasting too much time on discussions that just aren’t going in the right direction? If it is, end the conversation and walk away. The next step is to analyze why it went wrong and identify options from now on. Then, you must follow up and try to sell it again. 
  5. Be transparent – The days of telling associates anything is over. Don’t promise anything that doesn’t or will not exist. You could earn temporary success, but it won’t stay for long, and you’ll end up with bad reviews and a poor reputation. 
  6. Always solve problems – Who is your customer? Your employees! Safety professionals tend to be excellent problem identifiers but horrible problem solvers. Don’t identify issues and not provide solutions. A consultative safety approach allows you to be honest with your customers about their need to reduce risk and improve safety. 
  7. Roll with rejection – You won’t win every deal, and some people won’t like you. That’s part of being in safety. And while it’s essential to be thoughtful about how you can improve, it’s crucial to move on quickly from rejection. Experts suggest viewing rejection as proof that you’re pushing the limits. So, examine why you weren’t successful, ask for outside opinions when appropriate, and move forward quickly and positively to bigger and better performance.
  8. Take breaks – In safety, activity is often correlated with results. However, the more we roll out, the more stress and anxiety we create. Please focus on the top 3 things that will up the level of safety and follow those until they are well embraced and offering results, then consider additional options.
  9. Believe in what you’re selling – It’s easier to be passionate about — and sell — a safety idea when you genuinely believe in it. The most effective safety professionals follow the processes and believe in their values. Find happy testimonials from employees if you feel “meh” about something you’re selling. Examples of how your ideas have improved people’s safety — both big and small — will reinforce your motivation and give you proof that you are doing the right thing.
  10. Build personal relationships – One of my mentors is one of the best salespeople I know. He has taught me how to become an effective and successful salesperson, and I have used it in every company I’ve worked for. He is one of the most vital relationship builders. Everywhere he goes, he connects with people— not from a LinkedIn perspective, or the “let’s exchange business cards” way, but in a genuine, the humanist way that makes you want to talk to him again. As a safety professional, relationships are your success. You don’t need Don Draper level of charisma; on the contrary, a desire to help goes a lot further than a magnetic personality.
  11. They prepare ahead of time – An effective safety professional prepares and gets buy-in and approval before rolling anything out. That means they research and gather all the information they need before the first meeting. After that, you must go in with a contingency plan. This way, you are prepared for challenges or questions and can effectively respond to avoid losing the sale.

SO WHAT, NOW WHAT

There are many ways to succeed in safety. However, your ability to be an effective salesperson will result in success. By implying the habits mentioned above, you will provide a positive sales experience to your workforce. Demonstrating that you have the passion, knowledge, self-determination, and flexibility can take you from an average professional to a high-performing success story.

Denis is an Executive Director for the John Maxwell Group and is a certified leadership coach, trainer, keynote speaker, and DISC Behaviorial Consultant. Denis is a senior safety professional and a strong, passionate influential person. He is committed to teaching and communicating practical and relevant influencing techniques.  His unique, passionate, and emotionally driven style resonates with many, creating a desire to become an effective leader. 

You can contact Denis at dbaker@leaderinfluence.net for information on coaching, leadership, team and culture training, DISC Behavioral consulting, or to be an inspirational speaker at your next event.

MY FOCUS THIS YEAR IS BUILDING STRONG RELATIONSHIPS

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Build relationships by influencing what you expect, reflect what you desire, Become what you respect, and mirror what you admire.”

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It’s a new year!! Many of you have come up with new year goals on improving and changing things. It could be eating healthier, getting more sleep, hitting the gym, or improving personal growth. But, let’s admit, this is a typical American tradition to forget or quit early into the new year. My goal is to focus on building stronger relationships with my coworkers throughout the entire year. 

But how do I build strong relationships with every coworker? Relationships give us the ability to build respect, trust and ultimately allow us to influence. As you look at your relationships at work, there is no one you spend more time with than those you work with. 

Building relationships doesn’t mean you have to create a friendship. It means your colleagues must have confidence in what you say and suggest. I was recently put in a different role where it is critical to have strong relationships with every team member.

Building relationships doesn’t mean you have to create a friendship. It means your colleagues must have confidence in what you say and suggest. I was recently put in a different role where it is critical to have strong relationships with every team member. Even though I have focused most of my last 15 years on growing my leadership, I tend to want things my way, and everyone else doesn’t know what they are doing or talking about. So, I want to change my approach to ensure I build a strong relationship with each person. 

Here are 8 things I am focusing on to build stronger relationships.

  1. I will focus on people through my perception.  Your self-awareness, self-esteem, and self-perception establish the foundation of all your relationships. How you view yourself and life shapes how you see and relate to others.
  2. “People don’t care how much you know till they know how much you care.” Caring about people isn’t automatic. Not everyone cares. I’m sure you’ve run into people along the way that it’s clear that they don’t care. You can’t learn to care, it’s not a skill, but you can decide to care. 
  3. I will really listen. This is a game-changer. One of the most remarkable ways to build relationships with anyone is to listen genuinely. I am often in a hurry to give my viewpoint. I always want people not to “STOP TALKING, QUIT WASTING OXYGEN.” So, when you slow down for a minute or an hour and truly listen, you communicate that you value that person. 
  4. Hurting people hurts people. When your response to a situation is greater than the issue at hand, the real issue is always about something else. Strong leaders figure out how to get to the real issue.
  5. I will admit when I’m wrong, ask for forgiveness and forgive others quickly. Taking responsibility for your actions is the core to achieving solid relationships. If you make a mistake, own it. If you treat someone poorly, ask forgiveness. You might be correct, but if you need to win, you’ll lose in the long run.
  6. I will determine how to add value to people. You can add value to people in simple ways. Adding value is no more complex than the idea of how you contribute to them. It can be as simple as a kind and encouraging word, and it can be as involved as a lifetime of mentoring. Your relationships with others will give you the knowledge of how to add value to them. 
  7. I will strive to encourage my colleagues. We all know the answer but let me ask anyway. Have you ever been encouraged too much by anyone? Of course not. Your encouragement will create a strong relationship and increase your leadership.
  8. I will build Trust through my strong relationships. When it comes down to relationships, Trust is critical. But, unfortunately, at times, we will reduce Trust. Trust is like having a pocket full of coins. When I build Trust, I place more coins in my pocket; when I reduce Trust, I lose coins. The idea is to never run out of coins in your pocket, and you will maintain a level of Trust. This reflects your character and, ultimately, who you are.

I identified these focus items by reflecting on the last couple of years, identifying what I do well in building relationships and what I need to improve on. Some of these will be easy to achieve; however, many will challenge me this year. But I desire to make this year a successful year in building solid relationships and exceeding expectations. 

Let me strongly encourage you to consider these 10 focus items and make the necessary adjustments to achieve an intense year!

“A relationship is not perfect, you will fight over and over, but as long as you make-up, everything will be alright.”

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Denis is an Executive Director for the John Maxwell Group and is a certified leadership coach, trainer, keynote speaker, and DISC Behaviorial Consultant. Denis is a senior safety professional and a strong, passionate influential person. He is committed to teaching and communicating practical and relevant influencing techniques.  His unique, passionate, and emotionally driven style resonates with many, creating a desire to become an effective leader. 

You can contact Denis at dbaker@leaderinfluence.net for information on coaching, leadership, team and culture training, DISC Behavioral consulting, or to be an inspirational speaker at your next event.

BURNING DOWN THE HOUSE

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Your mouth is poison; your mouth is wine.

–The Civil Wars

WHAT WE SAY MATTERS

The words we use can create sparks that can burn down the house. The lyrics from the musical group, “Talking Heads, in their song, “Burning Down the House”, sets the stage for this blog.

My house! Is out of the ordinary

 That’s right! Don’t wanna hurt nobody

 Some things sure can sweep me off my feet

 Burning down the house

Let me break down these lyrics based on our words; 

“My house! Is out of the ordinary.” The atmosphere we create is based on the words we choose.

“We don’t want to hurt anybody.”, Our words can encourage, persuade, defend, or manipulate. They can offend, ruin our relationships, position, or the respect we have with those we lead or influence.

“Some things sure can sweep me off my feet.” Choosing the rights words will determine your effectiveness in influencing  

“Burning down the house.” Chose the wrong words, and watch everything you created, the culture, the relationship, and the influence you had, burn!

OUR WORDS ARE POWERFUL

In the third chapter of the book of James, he says this:

“Consider when a great forest is set on fire by a small spark. The tongue is also a fire.” Verse 7: “All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles, sea creatures are being tamed and have been tamed by mankind, but no human can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil full of deadly poison.” (NIV)

James wasn’t saying that speaking or words are evil. The fact is, our words are incredibly crucial for influencing others. Our words are essential for building and strengthening those we interact with, so words are important. But he does give us the warning that words can do a lot of damage.

Sometimes one inappropriate word can wreck a career. It can destroy a reputation. When it’s in bad taste, when it’s unfair or unjust, it can burn down a life. It can burn down a whole culture!

It doesn’t matter that you “didn’t mean it” or that you were “just joking.” Sometimes, words just hurt. And we who use them have a responsibility to do so with an awareness of the impact they may have.

In light of the COVID crisis and the racist issues, I spent time re-evaluating the way I think and the approach I take with others. I realize our words determine our beliefs, and that results in the atmosphere we create.

Here are some things to consider about our words:

  1. THINK. Think about what you want to say before you say it. Ask the question, “What if.”. Careless words create frustration.
  2. NOT POLITICAL. Words are not political. They are about respect
  3. CONTEXT. There are occasions in which certain words are not offensive. However, you must ensure you are clear in your position and communicate the FULL meaning of your thoughts.
  4. CORRECT or INCORRECT. You should know what words you are speaking; choose wisely before opening your mouth or writing that angry email or text.
  5. HABITS MATTER. If I speak differently at home than at work, my words will come out, regardless of where I am and who is accompanying me. They will come out unintentionally.
  6. LAZY WORDS. We will all offend someone at some time. Some more than others. Why? Because we are lazy to think before we speak and we are lazy to change the way we think.

So What Now What

Words are invisible sparks. They build up in our brains, and every time we speak a wrong word, they shoot from our tongue. If we continue to speak the wrong things, we will fuel the fire and “BURN DOWN THE HOUSE!”

Just do this…………………THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK.

FEAR LESS AS A LEADER, From a Safety Professional Perspective

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“Your Only Limit Is You. Be Brave And Fearless in Everything You Do”

Fears hold us back from achieving our success. As a leader, fear hinders the engagement of your passion. It opens the door for workers and leadership to take advantage of you and the situation. However, when you overcome your fear, you establish a deeper dependance on your personal growth and leadership.

Fear and overcoming fear are critical parts of our ability to lead others. In my role as a Safety Professional, I find myself fearing to make a decision or give advice that might affect production or create a morale challenge. I believe anyone who says they don’t have fear, probably needs to re-evaluate themselves. Fear lives within us all. Think about this:

You are flying from your hometown to Hawaii with your family for a much-deserved vacation. It has been a challenging year for all of you. About 3 hrs into the flight; over water and away from land, you notice smoke coming from the right engine. You notify the flight attendant, and she immediately runs and notifies the captain. Others are seeing smoke also. A buzz of fear and panic, including members of your family, begin to take over the cabin. The captain comes over the intercom (difficult to hear because of all the screaming) and says they must land in the ocean……….Has fear entered your thoughts?

I don’t think it matters who you are, how tough you are, or what your role in the organization is, I suspect anyone reading this would answer my question with a YES.

Throughout my career, I have faced fear numerous times. When you are in a profession where you have a passion for people, but are in a support role and do not have authority, there are times when you must make difficult decisions. These situations tend to put fear in our hearts and heads and sometimes can affect the outcome of the situation. 

I’ve identified five of my most common fears as a safety professional. You’ll recognize the fears because I believe anyone within the profession (even outside the profession) deals with similar situations regardless of industry or position.

  • Fear of Inadequacy – Do I know what the answer to the question is? What does the standard say we need to do about this situation? What if I tell them the wrong thing? If I’m wrong, will they disrespect me and not come to me for direction in the future? 
  • Fear of Disapproval – Will I be challenged on my decisions? Is my choice going to result in a meeting with my Plant Manager? Will my decision and direction create an atmosphere of negative energy and a loss in employee morale. Will my decision set our culture back?
  • Fear of Confrontation – Will our interaction become a hostile vocal or physical confrontation? Will they ignore me?
  • Fear of Isolation – Will they not like me? Will they invite me to lunch? Will my relationships be broken? Will I be alone?

All of these fears are felt by many, if not all, safety professionals. I will also say that anybody in any position will experience similar worries. I’ve seen each of them disrupt strong cultures and effect performance. If you’re facing any of these fears, it doesn’t mean there’s something defective about you. These fears are universal; they show that you’re human.

You will face fears. No degree can prepare you to meet them. So how do you combat your fears?

  1. Build relationships. This creates an opportunity to generate a positive attitude and motivate people.
  2. Connect with people in positions that generate your fear. Once you have that relationship and connection, the person(s) will consider you a part of the team.
  3. Build trust. Follow through on your commitment. If you can’t, then be humble and admit your mistakes.
  4. Make sure your directions and decisions add value to both the workers and leadership. People will only follow the instruction when they know it will add value to them.
  5. INFLUENCE! By accomplishing all of the above items, you will be able to influence others to change behaviors, think before performing the task, and ensure others are working safely also. 

Your approach to situations determines your ability to minimize or eliminate your fears. Here is how you should face your fear:

  • If a situation puts you in fear, step back, and take a few moments to breathe through it, think of the possible consequences and how you will handle them.
  • Walk away and call someone for advice.
  • Remind yourself that your fear is a storehouse of wisdom
  • Use humor to relieve the tense environment
  • Be flexible. If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always got! Many things can be done differently and will achieve the desired outcome.
  • Realize that influential leaders have to do the “difficult right things.” Sometimes the initial result is a challenge, but the long-term outcome will always be positive.

Our ability to manage fear becomes an asset to the safety of the workforce. It also contributes to the success of your organization and, ultimately, your success as a Safety Professional. You will create an environment of teamwork and collaboration that offers employees and leadership the opportunity to engage in decisions, creating a feeling of inclusion and buy-in.

“If something excites and scares you at the same time, it probably means you should do it.”

You can contact Denis at dbaker@leaderinfluence.net for information on coaching, leadership, team and culture training, DISC Behavioral consulting, or to be an inspirational speaker at your next event.

WHAT WILL YOUR LEADERSHIP LOOK LIKE IN 2020

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“Don’t Fool Yourself; LEADERSHIP IS HARD!”

In my effort to cultivate and grow my leadership, I find it challenging to stay the course and achieve what I read, witness, and teach. In fact, I often find myself telling people one thing and doing the exact opposite. Doing that can hurt those you lead, coach, mentor, or teach. If you don’t improve, you will ultimately lose respect, trust, and, eventually, the ability to influence. 

As 2020 approaches, I decided to evaluate my leadership abilities and identify those things I do well and those areas where I need to improve. The last four years have been a personal leadership challenge for me. I’ve had a job change that put me in a role with no direct reports and limited my decision-making authority. I’ve had to learn to lead differently. The term; “influence without authority” has become an actual reality challenge for me.

During my self-evaluation, I identified my top 5 strengths in leading others and having a strong influence on the decision making process.

1. I am a very HIGH ENERGY AND PASSIONATE leader in the areas I believe in.

2. I am willing to embrace CHANGE, even if I don’t entirely agree with it

3. I am PERSISTENT in my approach to achieving my desires, goals, and objectives

4. I am CONFIDENT in my decision making but open to ideas and suggestions

5. I am a strong ENGAGER of people

It is always good to identify your strong points, but it can be challenging to identify areas for improvement. The way I approached this was to reflect on 2019 and the many conversations, suggestions, and feedback I received throughout the year. I am always asking for feedback (although many times I don’t want to hear it or I have an excuse) 

Based on my evaluation and reflection, I will focus on building and improving the following five leadership traits in 2020. 

1. Being Clear in My Communication – I will work to enhance my communication approach through tone and word choices. Working to pull my feelings and frustration back and undoubtedly transfer my thoughts, ideas, and expectations. I will explain the “why” more often and ensure people are well informed. People want to be “in the know.” People want to deliver expectations, but can’t be successful if we don’t clearly and successfully communicate. They also want to know what the rewards are for good work and the consequences for sub-standard work.

2. Build Stronger Relationships – Relationships are critical to leadership. Strong relationships build trust and respect and offer the opportunity to influence. I will work to be present with my customers, leaders, and the workforce. I will reach out for general conversations and make sure I follow-up with the right people. I will work to show how much I care about all facets of the business. It is said, “People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care!” They are looking for you to care for them and build a working relationship. I will work harder to learn and remember names and recognize that life is going on outside of work.

3. Humble Myself – I am am very confident in my role but must be better at leading with humility. I don’t know everything and always make the right decisions, but I will work diligently to illustrate my knowledge through the quality of my choices. I will recognize all persons, regardless of position, and work to realize that no one is any more important than anyone else. I will demonstrate this through my actions and interactions. I will let each know how important they are by involving them and getting their brains in the game.

4. Be a Stronger Encourager – I will continuously look for and recognize the great work people are doing. I will express my gratitude and exemplify the positive difference they are making. I will encourage them for their actions, the work they perform, and the value they add.

5. Have Courage – I understand creativity and innovation drive progress and performance. I will make bold decisions, push back when needed, but fully support the final decision. I will have difficult conversations when necessary, and I will do the difficult right things.

With a new year and new decade roll into place, I feel like it is the optimal time to increase my influence and achieve more than I ever have. I don’t know where most of you fall within your leadership needs (unless I know you). Still, I believe the results from my self-evaluation will encourage many of you to look within yourself, identify areas of improvement, and make the necessary changes to become a stronger influencer and more effective leader.

BUILDING QUALITIES OF INTEGRITY

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“Integrity is the foundation upon which all other values are built!”

What are you willing to do for $10,000,000?

This question was posed to 2,000 Americans in an anonymous survey. Here are the results;

  • Would abandon their entire family (25%)
  • Would abandon their church (25%)
  • Would become prostitutes for a week or more (23%)
  • Would give up their citizenships (16%)
  • Would leave their spouses (16%)
  • Would withhold testimony and let a murderer go free (10%)
  • Would kill a stranger (7%)
  • Would put their children up for adoption (3%)

When I look at these stats and consider the way most American businesses and people operate, I think it is clear that integrity is falling behind. However, leaders who genuinely want to honor people and run a respectful business must lead with integrity.

The Bible provides excellent examples of various components of leadership. An interesting narrative in the Bible is the story about Daniel and his three friends, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego. This story is an excellent illustration of how to build integrity. These young Hebrew men were recruited into service by King Nebuchadnezzar If you focus on the details, the qualities to make integrity reveal themselves. 

As you read these qualities, rank yourself between 1-10 on each quality, 1 being the least and 10 being highest.

1. Leaders make tough choices by doing the difficult right things 

Daniel refused to eat the King’s food (Daniel 1.8) because Jewish law prohibited eating food offered in idol worship. He risked expulsion and possibly death by making such a choice. However, he made the right choice by doing the difficult right thing. 

2. Leaders treat their critics and enemies with respect. 

After Daniel and the King’s wise men were unable to tell the King the dream he had, and interpret it, ordered all wise men executed. However, Daniel approached the executioner with “tact” (Daniel 2.14). The encounter opened the door for Daniel to appeal to the King and interpret his dream. This changed Nebuchadnezzar to change his decision.

3. Leaders build their moral compass around their values.

When Daniel appeared before the King, he told him, “no human could interpret his dream, but that the God of heaven could solve his problem.” Daniel’s commitment to his values and beliefs served created his integrity. Whenever Daniel faced a decision, he always defaulted to what he valued. 

4. Leaders are consistent even in the small things because the little things matter.

In Daniel’s later years, he faced what appeared to be a small compromise. The current King, King Darius, was tricked by leaders jealous of Daniel into issuing a 30-day edict requiring everyone to pray to the King. Because Daniel had strong integrity and they could find any character flaws (Daniel 6:4), they resorted to deceit

For decades Daniel prayed to God three times a day, and everyone knew it. Now in his 80’s, he could have easily made a small compromise by praying to God in secret and fake prayers to the King. But that is not what Daniel could do. His integrity caused him to refused to follow the King’s proclamation and was thrown into the lion’s den, where he was later rescued. Leaders with integrity refuse to cut corners, compromise, or give in to the small matters of life and leadership.

5. Leaders model integrity for their kids and grandkids.

With two grandkids, my commitment to building strong integrity and values is becoming more prominent in my life. When I think about what I do and how I respond and react to things and situations, I consider that they will be more apt to model what I do (and did) than what I say (or said).

ENDING 

Centuries ago the Chinese were so fearful of their enemies that they built the Great Wall of China, It was so high they knew no one could climb over it & so thick that nothing could break it down. 

 But during the first 100 years of the wall’s existence, China was invaded three times. Not once did the enemy break down the wall or climb over its top. Each time they bribed a gatekeeper and marched right through the gates. 

Great leaders diligently seek to live, model, and build integrity into their lives. With honesty, we will thrive. Without it, our values lessen, and our souls wither.